Almost everyone is a combination of screwed up, broken, clingy and scared. Almost everyone is petty, narcissistic and secretly insecure.
There was a quote you read today,
“Come to terms with your brokenness”
This seems like the first necessary step to grow through your inadequacies; to acknowledge your demons and darkness. You’ve played around with this concept many a time, but let this serve as a reminder to when you feel your head is getting so big you’re struggling to see the ground. You’re broken too, so you’re not that special, different or better than anyone else.
Take stock in this when you feel judgement rear it’s ugly head (judgement for others and yourself). Let it ground your serious attitude towards life and laugh and smile at the fact you’re just a broken human who is trying to become a little less unbroken every day and add some good in this world.